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The first thing I wish I knew was knowing when to ask for help.
And if I’m any indication of what other people might thinking, then I have a feeling this one is INCREDIBLY common for most people. Learning when to ask for help is an INSANELY beneficial skill to have - plus it begins to help you become more assertive to get things done when you can effectively ask someone else for assistance.
Second, it’s so important that you realize just how insignificant everything is.
I nearly guarantee that whatever is bothering you RIGHT NOW, WILL NOT MATTER IN A YEAR FROM NOW. This took me a very, very long time to internalize…but once I did, it’s changed my entire mindset. When you take a step back and really think about it, everything that happens is SO insignificant in the entire universe. Our entire existence is a fraction of the blink of an eye…we are so small in the entire galaxy…and I don’t say this make you feel worthless or anything, but this should help you realize that whatever you’re going through likely isn’t as big of a deal as you think, and you will be ok and move on.
Third, with that, it’s really important to know what to let go.
Trust me when I say this…not EVERYTHING is worth arguing over, and it’s very important to learn to pick and chose your battles. Most of them are not worth it, and accomplish nothing. On the other hand, if there’s something that’s WORTH fighting for - that can actually have a POSITIVE impact - then do it, and it better be important. Understanding the differences is absolutely vital.
Fourth thing I wish I knew was that it’s OK to fail and it’s ok to be wrong.
The way I see it, every failure happens for a reason…and I just believe that life is supposed to present certain situations to you so you can learn from them and become a better person in the long run. If something happens, I always think to myself…this is really just a blessing in disguise, and I’m THAT much stronger of a person because of it. I guarantee if you mess up big time, you will not make that same mistake again…and you be better because of it. So embrace failing, embrace being wrong, and EXPECT it to happen - that way, you can get it out of the way quickly and keep going.
And fifth, this one is a small one that I just want to emphasize to everyone…just show up on time.
Don’t be late. Don’t cancel last minute. Just make commitments…and stick with them. Half the battle is LITERALLY just showing up on time…it isn’t always the smartest person, or the most talented who gets the opportunities…sometimes it’s the person who just shows up, at the right place, at the right time. And that’s all there is to it. So few people ever do that…that when you ARE that person who shows up, it’s almost like you have super powers or something. People act SURPRISED when you show up early, because it’s NOT NORMAL. And THAT’S how you get ahead.
And the more times you show up on time, the more likely you are to put yourself in situations for opportunity. And if you want to show up early, here is a very subtle reminder to hit the notification bell - so you can be here as soon as the video posts, and I’m always here the first hour answering comments.
For business or one-on-one real estate investing/real estate agent consulting inquiries, you can reach me at GrahamStephanBusiness @gmail.com
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The first thing I wish I knew was knowing when to ask for help.
And if I’m any indication of what other people might thinking, then I have a feeling this one is INCREDIBLY common for most people. Learning when to ask for help is an INSANELY beneficial skill to have - plus it begins to help you become more assertive to get things done when you can effectively ask someone else for assistance.
Second, it’s so important that you realize just how insignificant everything is.
I nearly guarantee that whatever is bothering you RIGHT NOW, WILL NOT MATTER IN A YEAR FROM NOW. This took me a very, very long time to internalize…but once I did, it’s changed my entire mindset. When you take a step back and really think about it, everything that happens is SO insignificant in the entire universe. Our entire existence is a fraction of the blink of an eye…we are so small in the entire galaxy…and I don’t say this make you feel worthless or anything, but this should help you realize that whatever you’re going through likely isn’t as big of a deal as you think, and you will be ok and move on.
Third, with that, it’s really important to know what to let go.
Trust me when I say this…not EVERYTHING is worth arguing over, and it’s very important to learn to pick and chose your battles. Most of them are not worth it, and accomplish nothing. On the other hand, if there’s something that’s WORTH fighting for - that can actually have a POSITIVE impact - then do it, and it better be important. Understanding the differences is absolutely vital.
Fourth thing I wish I knew was that it’s OK to fail and it’s ok to be wrong.
The way I see it, every failure happens for a reason…and I just believe that life is supposed to present certain situations to you so you can learn from them and become a better person in the long run. If something happens, I always think to myself…this is really just a blessing in disguise, and I’m THAT much stronger of a person because of it. I guarantee if you mess up big time, you will not make that same mistake again…and you be better because of it. So embrace failing, embrace being wrong, and EXPECT it to happen - that way, you can get it out of the way quickly and keep going.
And fifth, this one is a small one that I just want to emphasize to everyone…just show up on time.
Don’t be late. Don’t cancel last minute. Just make commitments…and stick with them. Half the battle is LITERALLY just showing up on time…it isn’t always the smartest person, or the most talented who gets the opportunities…sometimes it’s the person who just shows up, at the right place, at the right time. And that’s all there is to it. So few people ever do that…that when you ARE that person who shows up, it’s almost like you have super powers or something. People act SURPRISED when you show up early, because it’s NOT NORMAL. And THAT’S how you get ahead.
And the more times you show up on time, the more likely you are to put yourself in situations for opportunity. And if you want to show up early, here is a very subtle reminder to hit the notification bell - so you can be here as soon as the video posts, and I’m always here the first hour answering comments.
For business or one-on-one real estate investing/real estate agent consulting inquiries, you can reach me at GrahamStephanBusiness @gmail.com
nerf garham stephan he's too cool
Man you're the greatest
not me a teenager watching this 😐
I did my job as a thirteen years old YouTube watcher to help with the YouTube algorithm.
Graham Stephen, I love your videos and your personality so much. Could you please tell me hiw you use that small cute voice in middle of your videos like is it something you add while editing or do you speak like that and how i can do this in Imovie?
That speech about the Like button was so touching 😭
What if my problem is losing my home over a fucked up legal system in my country 😳
tbh this video deserved smashing the like button !
early bird gets the word baby
Your humor is great and keeps the videos educational and focus grabbing. Love the channel and the inspiration handed out. And you get a inspiration, and you and you …. 😉 Seriously Great content, video wise And character wise.
Omg the "hit the like button" was 🤣😅😂
Im 16 years old and im so happy i found you and dave ramsey lol even thougg i get made fun of for watching lame stuff but I don't care
Well, im 40, learning from a 20 sum year old.. Its kool..
YOU ARE AMAZING
Great advice✨
Hey where’s my free screenshot?
I like the idea of not re-confirming. I never thought of it from that perspective. Gonna have to give it a try
When your boy Graham finally achieves that 10% like/view ratio :')
For 1. asking for help isn't always good. In programming I've seen people ask directly for help, but spending 1h researching (or even a day) would actually have been very helpful to them. It would waste the time for that particular task, but it would have given them a great understand of the entire code base the programmer is working on. Sometimes spending a lot of time researching now, can save a lot of time later.
God I love this channel. I'm 14 and this video… oh my gosh. "pick your battles" and "your problems won't matter", I've never really thought of things like this. Also asking for help, I definitely will do that more often. Thanks.
As a German, I cannot relate to "it's like you have superpowers if you arrive early"
What is a list of worst advice you have received?
Got it but please dude keep them edits short kinda triggered me for what ever reason
Dude I died from that like button skit. I hit it btw..
I ate the like Button…
I disliked better luck next time
Loving the leather jacket, where is it from?
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