Here’s what you often don’t see behind almost every success story out there, and I’m sure these are things we all go through. These are a few of the struggles along the way from my perspective…enjoy! Snapchat / Instagram: GPStephan
1. The loneliness. When I first started selling real estate and working as a real estate agent, everyone was significantly older than me - and being in an office full of middle-aged people made it extremely difficult for me to relate to friend my own age. That, combined with my work schedule and different interests, made it really difficult to make friends my own age. It wasn’t easy building friendships outside of school and took a lot of time to cultivate these relationships.
2. The random things I’d give up along the way. College could have been one of them - no regrets, but I definitely wonder what it would have been like to go. But even smaller things, like investing becoming a priority, diligently saving, delayed gratification - all of this came up from time to time.
3. The stress. I’m incredibly invested in every one of my deals and don’t want to let anyone down. There’s definitely the uncertainty that I might not live up to someone’s expectations and that takes a toll.
4. The doubt. Even though I can look at anyone’s real estate deal objectively without a problem, when it comes to myself, I doubt it - just the nature of the game. So it’s definitely not easy for me to figure out which decision is best.
5. The uncertainty. I don’t know all the answers and I do my best to make the decision I believe is the best at the time, given the situation. I’m sure I’m not always right and I have no idea until after the fact.
If I’m not the only one who’s felt like this, comment below and let me know - I read them all! 🙂
For business or one-on-one real estate investing/real estate agent consulting inquiries, you can reach me at GrahamStephanBusiness @gmail.com
Suggested reading:
The Millionaire Real Estate Agent: http://goo.gl/TPTSVC
Your money or your life: https://goo.gl/fmlaJR
The Millionaire Real Estate Investor: https://goo.gl/sV9xtl
How to Win Friends and Influence People: https://goo.gl/1f3Meq
Think and grow rich: https://goo.gl/SSKlyu
Awaken the giant within: https://goo.gl/niIAEI
The Book on Rental Property Investing: https://goo.gl/qtJqFq
Favorite Credit Cards:
Chase Sapphire Reserve - https://goo.gl/sT68EC
American Express Platinum - https://goo.gl/C9n4e3
1. The loneliness. When I first started selling real estate and working as a real estate agent, everyone was significantly older than me - and being in an office full of middle-aged people made it extremely difficult for me to relate to friend my own age. That, combined with my work schedule and different interests, made it really difficult to make friends my own age. It wasn’t easy building friendships outside of school and took a lot of time to cultivate these relationships.
2. The random things I’d give up along the way. College could have been one of them - no regrets, but I definitely wonder what it would have been like to go. But even smaller things, like investing becoming a priority, diligently saving, delayed gratification - all of this came up from time to time.
3. The stress. I’m incredibly invested in every one of my deals and don’t want to let anyone down. There’s definitely the uncertainty that I might not live up to someone’s expectations and that takes a toll.
4. The doubt. Even though I can look at anyone’s real estate deal objectively without a problem, when it comes to myself, I doubt it - just the nature of the game. So it’s definitely not easy for me to figure out which decision is best.
5. The uncertainty. I don’t know all the answers and I do my best to make the decision I believe is the best at the time, given the situation. I’m sure I’m not always right and I have no idea until after the fact.
If I’m not the only one who’s felt like this, comment below and let me know - I read them all! 🙂
For business or one-on-one real estate investing/real estate agent consulting inquiries, you can reach me at GrahamStephanBusiness @gmail.com
Suggested reading:
The Millionaire Real Estate Agent: http://goo.gl/TPTSVC
Your money or your life: https://goo.gl/fmlaJR
The Millionaire Real Estate Investor: https://goo.gl/sV9xtl
How to Win Friends and Influence People: https://goo.gl/1f3Meq
Think and grow rich: https://goo.gl/SSKlyu
Awaken the giant within: https://goo.gl/niIAEI
The Book on Rental Property Investing: https://goo.gl/qtJqFq
Favorite Credit Cards:
Chase Sapphire Reserve - https://goo.gl/sT68EC
American Express Platinum - https://goo.gl/C9n4e3
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Thanks, this video resonated with me!
Behind every overnight success is years of work and grinding.
Wow. Graham (or anyone who sees this for that matter), I hope you realize the value of this video. The authenticity is amazing man. I hope you realize the impact you're making on people. How you're changing people's perspectives about money. About the purpose of money. About the truth behind success. In today's world of everyone flexing their BMW's and fancy houses in Beverly Hills, your radically different viewpoint is going to change a lot of people's lives for the better. Don't stop dude!
Graham thanks for sharing your truth
Yyyeessss. No one really understands how much work goes into making things happen!! Its soo hard finding someone your same age with the same hustle mentality 🙄..it def IS LONELY!! I have yet to really meet someone with such a go getter atitude..let alone a woman!!
1. Reminds me someone… 🤔
2. I experienced both work and university. You're right, it's that case when you regret only because you didn't experience those moments.
3. I am the same. Also I very much believe that whatever I do should be done perfectly, from the first time. Agree about stress.
4. Oh ye…
You are not the only one!
Keep doing your thing! 😊
how did they hire you when you were only after high school?
WOA, Graham is human too?! :O :O :O
I'll be your friend
Totally relate to video Graham. It's like OCD for Real Estate
Why do people dislike these vids? I personally see no reason. I mean, do what ya want, ppl! But why!? 😂
Your college friends might be standing on a keg, but you're standing on a stage.
This was really encouraging, appreciate your posting! I’m there!
… so you're making videos as a form of therapy? Haha 😀 Nice video, thx for being human and open and share your doubts that makes us real and human. It change from the videos of the genre that tell you "YOU can do it without working and be a millionnaire, just buy my thing!" Kisses from France, Paris where the price of square meter is crazy.
What kind of work did your parents do?
Thanks for being honest
Being Stoic when life slaps you in the face is a valuable personal skill.
The tough life becomes as an advantage when you realised that you are not complaining on sacrifices. Great video
Success requires hard work, determination and big sacrifice. At the end of the day was it worth it and would you have change anything ?
guys what are we doing, we should be working! 😂😁😂
Hey Graham, i watched until the end. I just wanted to know when we are going to see the finished product on the rental you purchased
At what age did you start making over 60k a year?
OMG I can relate to this so much! Even though I have a very playful personality but I do find it hard to relate to people my age at times.
Thank you for this honest relatable video.
It's truly an odd complex everyone who tries to reach their full potential arrives at. You want to be successful so you can be comfortable with your friends and family, but as you become successful through hard work you find yourself losing connection with the people you love. Very difficult to have your cake and eat it too
17 and running businesses I can relate to the loneliness , everything else that's "fun" seems like a waste of time
Hi Graham, Enjoying your videos but I'm wondering if you haven't already done so, can you post a video on how to identify the best company's in the stock market to invest in? I recently made a small investment and bought 500 shares in Canada Jet Lines which is a new Airline that will be starting up in Canada. Before putting in some chump change, I read the Corporate Bio's (just like reading a resume) and took a good look at the company's Business Plan.
I'm wondering if you could provide some feedback on this and again what is your strategy on identifying the best companies to invest in?
Thanks in advance for your advice and feedback!
PS…. You should write a book on your success, I think you would do really well!
Thanks Graham! I can totally relate to all of it. Its nice to know we aren't the only ones.