I’ve gotten way too many comments asking about what I think of relationships vs working a career, so here is a video addressing it - enjoy! Add me on Instagram: GPStephan
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So lets start here: I’ve noticed there’s just a strong entrepreneur mentality of “just get money” that gets thrown around a lot. It’s basically this notion that relationships are a waste of time, it’s a distraction, etc.
And I’m not here to criticize anyone’s choices and if that’s something they LIVE BY - but when it comes to me, personally, there’s no way I’d be here today if it wasn’t for the support of several past relationships I’ve had.
If you feel like having a relationship would be distracting from your career, or you you don’t have time for it…then chances are, you’re right, and it’s important to have the self awareness to realize that.
But…if you DO find a healthy balance between having a relationship and building a business at the same time, I’m 100% all for it. If both people are understanding of the situation and support each other, then that’s all you can ask for…it NEVER needs to be a decision of one or the other like so many people paint it out to be.
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So lets start here: I’ve noticed there’s just a strong entrepreneur mentality of “just get money” that gets thrown around a lot. It’s basically this notion that relationships are a waste of time, it’s a distraction, etc.
And I’m not here to criticize anyone’s choices and if that’s something they LIVE BY - but when it comes to me, personally, there’s no way I’d be here today if it wasn’t for the support of several past relationships I’ve had.
If you feel like having a relationship would be distracting from your career, or you you don’t have time for it…then chances are, you’re right, and it’s important to have the self awareness to realize that.
But…if you DO find a healthy balance between having a relationship and building a business at the same time, I’m 100% all for it. If both people are understanding of the situation and support each other, then that’s all you can ask for…it NEVER needs to be a decision of one or the other like so many people paint it out to be.
For business or one-on-one real estate investing/real estate agent consulting inquiries, you can reach me at GrahamStephanBusiness @gmail.com
it's not complicated. an intelligent man can recognize a genuine connection.same for women.
TRUE❤
You’re height
It is amazing how life changes!
It's better to just stay single and Bang Hookers
Never gives his reason for being single atm
I am sorry, but you are completely wrong about gold diggers and woman wanting real connections. Woman operate on hypergamy aka looking for the bigger better deal. They always want the most successful, tall and attractive men.
Also the argument that people avoid relationships to build wealth is not really a lack of finding a girlfriend, because most men are invisible to woman straight up. Men are heavily judged based on what they can provide and if you cant then you better be tall and good looking or just hope to win the lottery unicorn girl.
If you take the same dude that gets accused of lacking the ability to find a girlfriend and put him into an average looking girls body and see how quickly they can find a relationship. Why? Because in dating girls play on easy mode, you get dates for just existing. Guys have an invisible burden of performance that women shallowly judge by and then pretend that they love you for you. Say what you want, but i speak the truth like fresh and fit and rollo tomassi.
You're miles ahead here, Graham. Very wise! Love the content.
I appreciate you muting the swear words. It means I can watch this with my kids around.
Graham has been lucky in relationships. Good for him. Not everyone has been that lucky. Some guys have been burned really badly, and it scars them. Whatever you do, Graham, don't get a girl pregnant. If you do, I'm pretty sure your outlook on relationships will change.
Say what you will but at the end of the day dating tends to be more expensive for guys which makes it hard to get a girl when you're focused on saving early in ur life because the majority of girls want guys to ask them out which means "you pay for dinner since you invited me which means you pay for everything else too." If you don't it's seen as a bad quality in a guy and you probably won't get a second date "how dare you ask me out then want to split the bill," so yeah wonder why most guys see girls as gold diggers. Obviously girls don't just care about how many 0's you have in your bank account but at the same time girls can go out on dates completely free while guys are expected to be the ones paying like how you paid for the tickets for Savannah and probably other stuff on the first date and if you don't that affects the outcome of the date while that just doesn't happen with girls.
Great video!! If you are looking for the right attributes in a partner, you will find someone who doesn't care how rich you are.
Ex-girlfriend who dumped future millionaire reacts to….. I want to watch this!
i'm so happy to be one of your female viewers.
Yes, I think you're right on. One must project confidence to be attractive. That is a huge challenge. Far more difficult than inventing new physics, writing new code, or designing new semiconductors. The reason is that Nature doesn't care how you feel when you deal with it. Physics doesn't care whether you have confidence to solve an engineering problem. It only cares that you achieve the skill to do so. People do. And it's really hard to conceal how you feel.
Women care about where you are going with your life (leadership)- your debt (character) and how you take care of yourself (confidence) – not that you have money necessarily – it's who you ARE and what you want to be – that matters to women. Girls – they may like the flashy cars and clothes and cash…and then they usually don't care so much for you personally just what you can do for them/give them.
He ain’t single anymore
I think money can indirectly give the confidence in which is necessary to get a girlfriend.
He forgot to mention being 5’2”.
If it wasn’t for my girlfriend soon to be wife I wouldn’t have what I do now we save together to grow together
The worst kind are then ones that pretend to have their life under control but have a ton of dept on their backs (which they hide from you at first). I've had my share. Happy single.
Thanks, this is of your best videos, I am dating a single mum who is working hard to support her son. I am currently out of work due to redundancy in my last firm. Initially I thought she will leave me or be less responsive since I am no longer getting a pay check, but she didn’t and we talk everyday supporting each other. We have grown closer and I think your vid has help me understand how our relationships are working
PS : I am currently learning coding to change career to data analyst
a butterfly flutters away the more you chase it, but when you stop and focus on yourself thats the time when butterflies comes to you.
Myz-ner……or miser???
I aint sayin' she's gold digger, but I dont see her hangin' out with broke…..