These are the 6 things I wish I had known when I was a lot younger - I hope you enjoy and thanks for watching! Feel free to add me on Snapchat / Instagram: GPStephan
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1. I’d be less concerned about what other people thought of me. Trying to be cool, trying to fit in, trying to always say the right thing, or wear the right clothes…none of it ever mattered. No one cared. Everything was in my imagination because I was too self conscious to believe that I could just be myself without trying to fit in. Everyone is too focused on themselves to give any attention to you. So go ahead and just be you…if anything, people just respect that more. Very few people out there can truly be themselves, it takes a lot of inner confidence and security to know that you can be yourself. So go ahead, just be you and it’ll turn out better than you ever expected.
2. The next thing I’d tell myself is not to compare myself with others. On one hand you could look up to someone super successful and admire them, and use that as motivation and inspiration to push yourself further. On the other hand, comparing yourself to someone who has more money, is better looking, has more than you, is further ahead than you, and feeling jealous or that it’s “unfair” because of that…is a waste of mental energy. We’re all different, travel different paths, and it’s impossible to compare yourself with someone else. Life isn’t a race, it’s a journey. And it’s the journey that makes it beautiful, not the finish line.
3. There’s more than just someone’s image, too. You have no idea what people are secretly going through. The successful-looking guy could be absolutely empty inside. Or the non-assuming dude in the beat up Honda could be the happiest, more secretly baller player ever - your interpretation of these things isn’t always correct, so best to always go into it knowing that what you see is just what you see - it’s surface level.
4. The next thing, and the biggest thing, is that i’d like to remind myself that no one knows what they’re actually doing. Everyone is just as lost as each other but will rarely ever admit it. I’m still trying to figure things out, i really have no idea what I’m doing half the time, I still doubt what I’m doing is working or good enough, and I think that’s totally normal. It doesn’t make you weird, it doesn’t make you bad, it just means you’re like every other person who’s living life. We’re all just as clueless and winging it.
5. Finally, you never regret taking action - you only regret what you didn’t do. So go and do those things, you won’t regret it.
6. Don’t worry about things that haven’t happened yet. I’m a worrier. It’s a waste of energy. Spend your time doing this to proactively improve your life, not playing mental defense.
Understanding this really helps put it in perspective. Thanks so much for watching!
For business or one-on-one consulting inquiries, you can reach me at GrahamStephanBusiness @gmail.com
Suggested reading:
The Millionaire Real Estate Agent: http://goo.gl/TPTSVC
Your money or your life: https://goo.gl/fmlaJR
The Millionaire Real Estate Investor: https://goo.gl/sV9xtl
How to Win Friends and Influence People: https://goo.gl/1f3Meq
Think and grow rich: https://goo.gl/SSKlyu
Awaken the giant within: https://goo.gl/niIAEI
The Book on Rental Property Investing: https://goo.gl/qtJqFq
Thanks to SelectRugs.com for the amazing rug! Definitely check them out!
1. I’d be less concerned about what other people thought of me. Trying to be cool, trying to fit in, trying to always say the right thing, or wear the right clothes…none of it ever mattered. No one cared. Everything was in my imagination because I was too self conscious to believe that I could just be myself without trying to fit in. Everyone is too focused on themselves to give any attention to you. So go ahead and just be you…if anything, people just respect that more. Very few people out there can truly be themselves, it takes a lot of inner confidence and security to know that you can be yourself. So go ahead, just be you and it’ll turn out better than you ever expected.
2. The next thing I’d tell myself is not to compare myself with others. On one hand you could look up to someone super successful and admire them, and use that as motivation and inspiration to push yourself further. On the other hand, comparing yourself to someone who has more money, is better looking, has more than you, is further ahead than you, and feeling jealous or that it’s “unfair” because of that…is a waste of mental energy. We’re all different, travel different paths, and it’s impossible to compare yourself with someone else. Life isn’t a race, it’s a journey. And it’s the journey that makes it beautiful, not the finish line.
3. There’s more than just someone’s image, too. You have no idea what people are secretly going through. The successful-looking guy could be absolutely empty inside. Or the non-assuming dude in the beat up Honda could be the happiest, more secretly baller player ever - your interpretation of these things isn’t always correct, so best to always go into it knowing that what you see is just what you see - it’s surface level.
4. The next thing, and the biggest thing, is that i’d like to remind myself that no one knows what they’re actually doing. Everyone is just as lost as each other but will rarely ever admit it. I’m still trying to figure things out, i really have no idea what I’m doing half the time, I still doubt what I’m doing is working or good enough, and I think that’s totally normal. It doesn’t make you weird, it doesn’t make you bad, it just means you’re like every other person who’s living life. We’re all just as clueless and winging it.
5. Finally, you never regret taking action - you only regret what you didn’t do. So go and do those things, you won’t regret it.
6. Don’t worry about things that haven’t happened yet. I’m a worrier. It’s a waste of energy. Spend your time doing this to proactively improve your life, not playing mental defense.
Understanding this really helps put it in perspective. Thanks so much for watching!
For business or one-on-one consulting inquiries, you can reach me at GrahamStephanBusiness @gmail.com
Suggested reading:
The Millionaire Real Estate Agent: http://goo.gl/TPTSVC
Your money or your life: https://goo.gl/fmlaJR
The Millionaire Real Estate Investor: https://goo.gl/sV9xtl
How to Win Friends and Influence People: https://goo.gl/1f3Meq
Think and grow rich: https://goo.gl/SSKlyu
Awaken the giant within: https://goo.gl/niIAEI
The Book on Rental Property Investing: https://goo.gl/qtJqFq
20 years old here ill be back in 10 years to give myself some tips>
i want to do all my dreams and be outgoing
still havent finished 6th
i should manage my time well and accomplish these things
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أروح مطعم أكل بحري Macha وغيره
أروح لمدينة السندباد
أروح لقرية دجلة
أروح للمتنبي وحدي
أروح للجامعة المستنصرية
أروح اشوف فلم بالسينما
أروح للمتحف العراقي
أروح لحديقة الزوراء أشوف حيوانات
أروح لحفل الفرقة السمفونية اوركسترا ينشرون مواعيد على الفيسبوك
أروح لمعرض بغداد مال كتاب يبدي من يوم 18-27 بالشهر التاسع والسنة الوراه أتطوع وياهم
أتطوع ويه IQpeace
أروح لمقبرة الانكليز وكنيسة واماكن تراثية ببغداد
أروح للأهوار , زقورة اور و الاثار
أروح للشمال
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I want to be comfortable going out alone and enjoying myself
How to start going out alone
Question: What do other people think about you? Answer: People don't think about you. (OK, maybe a bit). Most are too busy thinking about themselves.
looking back, his voice is weirdly deep in these older videos
we are so different but we think so similarly 🙌🏽💛
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Hi, Graham.
I know you don't usually reply to comments from your old videos but let me say this.
I am a thirteen years old boy from Myanmar. And my goal is to get to where I want to be in life and these videos of you are helping me. Thank you.
where did you get that art behind you, it looks great man
I needed this, thank you.🙏
I needed this lmao I’ve decided not to go to work today and really just because of anxiety‼️💀( I’m 16 and I’ve changed since quarantine)but um I’m really trying..I just have a hard time with my image and just being myself these days but I’m really trying..I really just need a hug lmao but yeah..I know I’ll be alright in the future
Probably the realest YT vidéo on here til this day 💯
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awesome video all true and great tips
I wonder how this guy would react to a good dose of DMT lol
I took this advice and I was myself, I also ended up with no friends by being myself.
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Nah I was just kidding, good advice.
i love u
This is the first time I go over your old videos. I really like this content. You should do more of these videos now.
I think Life is fucking goddam process. Not jurney
Quality video, really resonated with me, keep up the good work
Love your content ✊❤️
when can I treat myself to luxury things?
Such a genuine video. Thanks for always inspiring. 🙂
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Luv the advice u don't know how much you changed my perspective
Let me know what you guys think of the new back drop / office setup! 🙂