Are you allowing the opinion of others determine who you are and how you feel? Most people wrap their identity around the feedback they receive from others.
It is good to listen to feedback, but it is horrible to let it fully determine who you are. It's horrible to associate how many likes, comments, stars, etc. determine your success.
On your deathbed, you're not going to be counting what everyone else has said about you. I would argue that outside of yourself, the only opinions that matter are the opinions those closest to you.
Forget the opinions from 90% of other people in this planet. The 10% that you should care about are your mentors, friends, and people you love who are on the same journey as you.
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18 thoughts on “Can’t stop caring about what other people think of you?? watch this”
  1. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Anna Eckstein, Realtor® says:

    Agreed !!!

  2. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Deanna Woody says:

    Great video

  3. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Huzaifa Ali says:

    Great

  4. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Ella Jones says:

    You are 110% so talking to ME!!! This so POWERFUL and thank you for the reminder! Working on the best me ever…look out world here I come. EJ

  5. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jayy Wess says:

    You’re definitely one of the most influential people I’ve ever watched

  6. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars MissySarr says:

    Amen… Thank you so much for the amazing advice!!! You are an absolute genius 🙌😘💃🏻!!!

  7. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Sonny H says:

    Here's an emotional blip and friendly tip from one of your 90% … Using vulgar language is offensive to some, unprofessional and a warning flag. There comes a time when we should grow out of "talking like a sailor". Higher ranking in society brings more responsibility to "rise above" and "elevate your game" away from "locker room talk". Machiavellian tactics are disingenuous as that worldview is based upon greed and the manipulation of other people for personal gain, and some people will see through the "acting". Christian living is about loving others through the power of the Holy Spirit which results in true empathy, service, care, and higher personal performance with rewards in the temporal and eternal realms. The "Machiavellian" will always have to use the "fake it till they make it" approach whereas Christians can genuinely serve and care for others. The "Machiavellian" usually views Biblical love as weakness, but "real love" is actually more powerful than anything known to man… powerful enough to forgive offenses and sacrifice one's life for another. That's what Jesus Christ did for us. He loves us while we don't deserve it and can't earn it. It's beautiful. Jesus has the power to forgive our sin debts and save us from eternal judgment. We have to believe what the Bible says about Jesus which is that Jesus is God who came to Earth in the flesh and willingly poured out His blood as payment for our sin debts. He rose again from the dead on the third day and sits at the right hand of God the Father in power. He's going to come back and settle all accounts on Earth and correct all wrongs. If we "believe in Jesus", we will ask Him to forgive our sins and follow Him as our God and Savior. We will also obey His commands which derive from two…. "Love God" and "Love your neighbor". That's it. If you choose to follow Jesus, you will have the most rewarding life ever and you will excel in ways you never thought possible. You will have hope in a ruthless world for this life and the next life after. So, ask Jesus to forgive your sins or offenses toward Him and He will forgive you and give you "new life". Start reading the Bible and meet with other "believers". If you've ever wanted to maximize "self improvement", then it doesn't get any better than this. Love, live, and be happy.

  8. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars The Art Of Jerry (Jesus is God) Salvation says:

    Wise advice. The 10% likes is so much greater

  9. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Сюзанна Хачатурян says:

    😎👌🏼

  10. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Chris says:

    You so right on my death bed none of that matters.

  11. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Brandon Carter says:

    I'm All In.

  12. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Avi Becker says:

    SOOO FIRE! Always the best way to start Monday!

  13. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jennifer says:

    Listened to this several times. Love it!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  14. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jennifer says:

    You always have the best info. You bring true value to all of us. I needed this 😁

  15. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Tanyan Davies-Wall says:

    As Rachel Hollis says "Other People's opinions are none of my business" I totally agree with her and Tom! It is easier said than done, but it is sooo true!!

  16. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Devine Sabista says:

    Good idea always in life we,often look back to hear what others think about us and we end up loosing the trend. Greetings to all who listen to your videos. God bless you.

  17. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Amit says:

    Very powerful advice. Thank you.

  18. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Brian Doneghy says:

    Great advice Tom! Too many times I worry too much about how others feel about me. That ends today, thanks to you. Thank you.😌

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