You become like the people you spend the most time with. We’ve all heard this phrase once, twice or a million times in our lives.
On today’s #MindsetMonday, I share the time when my own dad told me this phrase and the life-changing advice he gave me when I was beginning a new journey in my life. I also talk about the 3 types of people that we all have in our lives and the exercise I did at the time that helped me make the leap towards a better, more positive life.
I hope my advice and exercise strikes a chord to help you make a shift in your life. I now challenge you to focus your energy to ensure you’re surrounding yourself with positive people who inspire you and will help you achieve your goals.
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18 thoughts on “Show me your friends and i will show you your future”
  1. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Thomas Uwe Wichmann says:

    Wer dir Funk in dein Ohr baut der konnte nicht wählen.
    Es gibt keine Freunde nur Feinde die sich getarnt haben .

  2. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Aart says:

    Fantastic vid, I needed that, Thank you 🙂

  3. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jacopo Michelini says:

    Very good video 👍👍👍

  4. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Rashaad says:

    Really opened my eyes

  5. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Ron Sowers says:

    Tom, stop smoking cigars . . . stop smoking anything.

  6. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars jorgegrealty says:

    My grandmother told me this saying over 20 years ago before she passed away" Tell me who you hang around with and I will tell you who you are." This is so true till this day.

  7. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Jennifer says:

    Love this!! Always good!!

  8. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Eric Larkin says:

    Great message with this one Tom!

  9. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Mona Ameri says:

    What if i have no friends 😔

  10. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars David Demangos Living In San Diego says:

    Know your Honda 125, such a cool motorcycle. Retired from X-Games Freestyle Motocross and into Real Estate after a bunch of friends (who you know) convinced me to get licensed. Spent years with band of motorcycle buddies who were ultra dedicate (helping each other learn to flip dirt bikes before there were foam pits to practice in, special thanks to Travis Pastrana)… Are all freestyle motocross guys crazy, does that make me crazy??? We do become the people we spend most time with, great reminder Tom…

  11. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Bill Pipes says:

    Such a valuable lesson that I learned from MF as well too. Thanks for presenting in a way that we can use it without alienating those in our lives. You rock brother.

  12. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars LeATeP says:

    Good point man, it just means, that you focus on it 🙂 for me, who is anti-social, it’s quite difficult to make friends and develop relationships, especially i when lacking self-confidence + lacking good opportunities and people around… everything I do, I try to do different things, like building habits, and it does not succeed as you see 🙂 so only remains is to suffer alone

  13. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Michelle McDermott says:

    Where do I find these people? I was a homemaker for 25 yrs, recently divorced, slightly disabled by arthritis, and I now work part-time in a 4 person office. Basically no connections except family, who seem to fit on my "negative list." I am determined to better my life, but would love to have a group of like minded friends to challenge me.

  14. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Retro says:

    What if I don't have any friends? Do I not have a future?

  15. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Alicia Maedo says:

    Needed to hear this. The negatives include blood. Can't hang with them anymore and must shift my energy to POSITIVE. Thank you for this vid.

  16. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars akimbo says:

    Fellow "Costa Mesaian", grew up off Harbor and Wilson. Thanks for the positive message.

  17. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Lisa Treu says:

    Love this message. This was our team's huddle today. I am blessed to have a great positive list.

  18. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars CharismaBlanco says:

    Amazing 😉Thank you so much

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