As an independent contractor...someone who has to self motivate everyday to accomplish goals...how much time do you spend fighting self talk? You know, those times when you're completely in your head about something regrettable you may have said or done. How much time are you spending in that head space rather than changing your negative thoughts into positive and focusing on what really matters most?
That's what this episode is all about. Controlling your attitude to stay in the positive and focus on actions that align with your goals.
Think about a time when something didn't go your way. Maybe you boarded a flight to find yourself in the middle seat or next to a crying infant. Did that put you in a bad mood? Your attitude is all about how you view the world. And, there are specific techniques that I teach to all of my clients, and personally practice, to be able to view any situation in a positive way and immediately change your state of mind.
When things don't go as planned it's easy to get in your head and start beating yourself up. This is a vicious downward spiral and a scary place that we've all been. So, how do we change this vicious cycle?
I have been on a journey to condition myself to align my behaviors to make sure that when things don't go as planned ... which happens OFTEN .. that I don't let it get me down and I keep moving forward.
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30 thoughts on “3 steps to developing a positive attitude #tomferryshow episode 45”
  1. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars D.A. Club says:

    20,000 thoughts a day comes to a thought every 4 seconds. Assuming we have the same level of thought when we sleep.

  2. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Celia Cavalli says:

    I call them “human forms of sunshine”

  3. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars gourab das says:

    Woow
    Thank you

  4. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Noah. c says:

    tom i dont know how to be happy eny more im so made with my family my sister mom thay bitching about shit every day im getting to the bottom how do i Chang my life i never get it but your videos or the best but i need help … it hapind to day bin like that ever sins sorry for bad spilling. it make no sens becus i live in a good home and grit parnts i thike we all are negative

  5. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Nina Muncherji says:

    Awesome. Life lessons which make you sit up and think and then act.

  6. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Keith Bryan says:

    Biggest takeaway -1) Attitude -> Action->Results->Self talk,Focus, Physiology. Repeat 2) Four actions a)Fill your cup(study, read, learn) b) Daily mantra c) Stand like you mean it d)RGD 5) When you squeeze an orange you don't get apple juice. What you fill your cup up with is what comes out when you get squeezed!

  7. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars מרים ביתן says:

    Very interesting. Well explained and understood. And adds some missing pieces of my logic. Thanx alot.

  8. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Julie Wright says:

    RGD!  Love TF!

  9. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars dinesh vure says:

    grt massg

  10. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Chakira Peterson says:

    needed this…thanks alot

  11. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Virtual Bridge says:

    Thanks tom

  12. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Ginger Marphis says:

    How simple! And Powerful! Producing Results through the power of positive thinking.

  13. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Mukhtaar Hashim says:

    awesome video Tom.. watching from Brisbane, Australia… keep up the smashing work..

  14. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Cliff DenDekker says:

    This is one of my favorite TF shows!!

  15. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Janice Gassmann says:

    Tom, I am thankful for you and your wonderful videos. I feel very blessed to have them to listen to everyday before I start my prospecting. :))

  16. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Bruce Johnson says:

    Great message! Sharing this with on whole sales staff at this weeks meeting. Standing tall!!

  17. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Vance Oliver says:

    I am participating in a book club for "Motivation Manifesto" – So much of this resonates with what we were discussing today. Thanks for all your videos!

  18. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Blu says:

    Thank you for the wake up call! Great episode!

  19. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars EPF says:

    This video really hit home for me. I was in years near the end. Thanks Tom!

  20. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars tomer amar says:

    Im not goanna touch that! ,beautifully put!

  21. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Justin Scott Ferreira says:

    Thanks really helpful for all walks of life !

  22. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Kim Benedict says:

    I love this video, I think its my favorite so far! The information is right on target, and inspiring… Keep it coming Tom!

  23. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Viktoria Devinova says:

    Thanks for cheering up ! This is awesome!

  24. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Doeven Ong says:

    Never seen someone conveyed such cliche pointers with such impact. Awesome awesome awesome!

  25. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Hitesh Jain says:

    hey tom, thanks for the amazing video, I always get in action like a superman after seeing your videos

  26. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Collin Koppang says:

    Tom, I am a new agent in San Diego with the Dean Aguilar Group powered by Teles Properties. I cannot wait to meet Sharran next week and I truly hope I get the chance to meet you at Sales Edge in La Jolla on the 19th of this month. We love you, use all of your scripts, watch your videos weekly, and follow your coaching strategies. Thank you for all of your hard work.

  27. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Anna Whang says:

    Very clear, focused, and powerful. Thank you.

  28. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Vilma Rosa says:

    Thank You, Thank you your video is so valuable to me.

  29. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars Saffeya says:

    Get real and personal! Love you Tom!

  30. Avataaar/Circle Created with python_avatars karen B says:

    Positive attitude is soo crucial and comes Naturally to some and some have to constantly work on I but then succeed beyond their wildest dreams. I have come across many agents who are so emotionally healthy and it is so evident in all of the dealings. I absolutely love your videos… I am learning so much. Thanks

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