One thing you probably don’t realize is that I constantly doubt whether or not my video is “good enough” to be uploaded. After speaking with some people, it seems like all of us feel the same way about what we do. Even this one; it’s more off topic from my real estate/finance topics but I uploaded it to prove a point. You just gotta do it anyway.
Any bit of self doubt will slowly destroy you. Once it starts, it’s pretty easy to get caught up in your head and it’s easy to then begin holding yourself back (nah, I won’t upload this video..I’ll just make another one in a few days). It’s then that you realize that you get in your own way, you are your own worst enemy.
So how do you get over it? You just do it. Even if you don’t feel confident or know it’ll work. It’s not about having the best video ever. It’s just about doing it. It’s about committing to something about doing it no matter how you feel. Even if you mess it up. It’s not always about doing the right thing, it’s better to move in that direction. No matter what you’re doing - don’t get in your own way, fam. Thanks for watching, more real estate/finance videos on the way!
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Suggested reading:
The Millionaire Real Estate Agent: http://goo.gl/TPTSVC
Your money or your life: https://goo.gl/fmlaJR
The Millionaire Real Estate Investor: https://goo.gl/sV9xtl
How to Win Friends and Influence People: https://goo.gl/1f3Meq
Think and grow rich: https://goo.gl/SSKlyu
Awaken the giant within: https://goo.gl/niIAEI
The Book on Rental Property Investing: https://goo.gl/qtJqFq
Any bit of self doubt will slowly destroy you. Once it starts, it’s pretty easy to get caught up in your head and it’s easy to then begin holding yourself back (nah, I won’t upload this video..I’ll just make another one in a few days). It’s then that you realize that you get in your own way, you are your own worst enemy.
So how do you get over it? You just do it. Even if you don’t feel confident or know it’ll work. It’s not about having the best video ever. It’s just about doing it. It’s about committing to something about doing it no matter how you feel. Even if you mess it up. It’s not always about doing the right thing, it’s better to move in that direction. No matter what you’re doing - don’t get in your own way, fam. Thanks for watching, more real estate/finance videos on the way!
Add me on Instagram: GPStephan
Add me on Snapchat: GPStephan
Suggested reading:
The Millionaire Real Estate Agent: http://goo.gl/TPTSVC
Your money or your life: https://goo.gl/fmlaJR
The Millionaire Real Estate Investor: https://goo.gl/sV9xtl
How to Win Friends and Influence People: https://goo.gl/1f3Meq
Think and grow rich: https://goo.gl/SSKlyu
Awaken the giant within: https://goo.gl/niIAEI
The Book on Rental Property Investing: https://goo.gl/qtJqFq
Graham saying naughty words!! I knew if I came back far enough I'd find the old Graham.
@graham You should watch this before your fight! Have confidence it is all in your head man lets get that DUB!!!
You cuss?
These old videos are great, like the cussing and the raw delivery
Thank you for this video for real. I've been doing videos here and there for a few years now, and I have probably 2-3x more unlisted and private videos (even some just plane deleted).
I upload them, then I think wow I'm stupid, the quality isn't good, or the sound is off, or I blame my lack of editing… Anyways yeah I get it and I am working to get passed that. I've actually been trying to reach out to you for a possible short conversation!
I tried an Email but I guess it was an invalid one because the Email came back unsent.
I messaged on Facebook/Instagram.
Big Fan, talk soon hopefully.
Edit: Forgot I changed my YT name, my Facebook account is Jacob Mathery
I hope you never delete these old videos! They're total gold!
“SunCor Financial MPI review"
Back when graham used to swear 😂
Watching this to see what Graham in his early days was like on YouTube; he was really into the cursing back then 😯
I didn't know Graham is cursing in his older vids 😄
These old videos are dope!
Damn i love how real you are ! Love the fact you not trying to show you are just perfect but someone like us. Feel close to you. It's really inspiring and shows how humble you are
Long way ahead Graham. Congrats on your 2M. Soon to hit 5!
instead of binge watch some lame ass tv show i binge watch all your videos
This is so ridiculously good.
Graham as you are being genuine that simply makes you real. Mistakes grow you, not take over. Keep up the hard work❤️
I feel the same way about my videos and start procrastinating because I don't feel like enough want to listen. So if you are reading this comment, I would LOVE for you to help a girl out and subscribe! xoxo
Trust me, your videos ARE good enough.
Go easy on yourself, okay? 😊
Travel back from 2020. Are you still self-doubting now, Graham? @Graham Stephan
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OK, this one's one of my faves, too! Too many good videos, Graham! Too many. (!!!!)
This struggle is causing me not to take action,because im so worried about what people think,thanks for the inspiration,i just worry about stuttering when talking and looking stupid
Great stuff! Self-doubt sucks. Just do it. The consequences for most things we are afraid of really aren't that bad–just go for it.
Everyone goes through this doubt when starting something different. They are afraid of failure and rejection. But like you said, these doubts keep us from doing the things we really want to do. Thanks for sharing this story man. It's nice to know that we're not the only ones experiencing this.
You're so smart
The YT algorithm just suggested my this old video. Well, you look still the same. Grettings to your girlfriend.
"the only thing we had to do was free our mind" – kendrick lamar, money trees
I was just editing a video and thinking "wow! This is crap!" Thanks for the inspiration Graham!
Great video Graham. Loving your videos!